Now, the other day when Gabi came home from school she was telling us that they had learned the 3rd person rule, Jesus - Others - You. JOY. She told us how we should always put Jesus first, others second, and ourselves third. That goes right along with what we are always talking about with Gabi, Loving God and Loving Others, and how we can do that every day even in little ways.
So, Gabi takes the candy, opens it, and without giving it a thought, she takes it and breaks it. She looked at it and saw that it didn't break exactly in half. She examines the pieces and takes the smaller piece and puts it in her mouth and hands the bigger half to Michelle. My heart nearly burst out of my chest! I could not believe this amazing little girl! We all immediately told her how proud we were of her for wanting to share, but more than that, how she decided to give the bigger piece away. She looked at us and said, " I was using the 3rd person rule. Jesus, Others, You." Which blew me away even more.
I realized how often I don't practice this simple rule. I like to keep the bigger, better piece for myself. I often times get the 3rd person rule backwards. Y - O - J. I think of myself before others. I am learning so much from my sweet 5 yr old!
I will never look at an Andes mint the same!
Mrs. "E" and I will never forget that day in chapel when Gabi learned the 3rd person rule of JOY (Jesus first, Others second and Yourself last). At the very end of chapel, your nephew, Reid, bravely spoke up and said something like this, "Yes, Mrs. "E", we don't want the opposite of JOY; that would be YOJ!
ReplyDeleteMimi and I still giggle when we think of Reid coming up with that word! That lesson at school chapel will forever ring in my head!
Bless you and thank you for heading up Summit's Christmas program!
Forever Christ reigns,
Liz Sweet